Bold 2012: In Community

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Community is sometimes hard to describe, and it can mean different things. When I think of community, one word comes to mind: roots. To be in community means not only having friendships, but a home. Things that make you deeply connected to a place you live and work. When I think about being intentionally bold [...]

Bold 2012: In Relationships

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The second area that I feel want to be bold in this year is the arena of relationships. While I’m an introvert, relationships are what my job is all about. I’m pretty good at my job and I absolutely love it, but the focus full-time on relationships means that sometimes I retreat from relationships outside [...]

Bold 2012: In Faith

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The pressure to embrace being bold first arose within the context of my faith. It as though God continues to bring this to mind through conversations with friends, church services, small groups, and my personal Bible Study. It is the context in which “bold” first came to mind. All the verses I shared in the [...]

One Word 2012: Bold

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Every year some people choose one word as they start their new year to set a personal vision for what the next 12 months will hold. I’ve never done that, usually nothing spectacular comes to mind. I also am not a resolutions person. I prefer to make changes as I see the need for it [...]

Turning the Page on Chapter 11…

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Chapter 2011 that is. Tonight I rang in 2012 at the wedding of a student here in Anderson, South Carolina. Last year, I rang it in as the on-call residence hall director in Waco, Texas, meaning I was at home in my pjs. I don’t remember last new year, which probably means I was asleep [...]

Chicken or Egg?

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There are some jobs that I come in contact with that almost always involve negative experiences. The DMV, Airport Screeners etc. It seems like the people who work there never have a smile on their faces or a pleasant word to say. When I first moved to Anderson I traveled to our local DMV office [...]

Grown Up RAs

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Tonight there was a “get to know your neighbor” event in my apartment complex. I’m an introvert, so I am really uncomfortable in these sorts of settings. Meeting lots of new people is not really my thing, contrary to my line of work. However, I don’t like that I know none of my neighbors. Reminding [...]

Changes

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It’s been quite a while since I posted here, five months to be exact. A lot has happened in five months. You might remember that my last blog post was about the bittersweetness of leaving Baylor and moving to a new job in Anderson, SC. Last week I took a couple of days off to [...]

Bittersweet

Every now and then I get the feeling that my life is described by one word. Some people choose a word every year to describe what they want from their life for that year. I am more of the reflective type than the visionary type, so I usually see words AFTER the fact. Now is [...]

Big Dreams, Small Details

When I dream about what my financial life will look like after I finish paying off my student loans, big things come to mind. I do not dream about owning a huge house, a nice car, a vacation home or anything like that. I have crazy, big dreams. You’ve all heard stories like this one. [...]